Never Far From View
One of the main questions that I have been asked is how do we know that
the Gods and Goddesses are listening. A very potent and tricky question
to answer. One that has been attempted over the ages of time.
It is something the individual must feel alone. Not something that is told to them by others. A true feeling of warmth, comfort and trust is felt. During times that are turbulent and calm. The feeling is there. Sometimes it is harder to discern it is there but none the less it is.
During sessions of counseling I have attempted to comfort those with the feeling of what I call it" loss of the Gods". It is the feeling brought on by circumstances that are beyond our control and seem to be over whelming us. Those times when we are at our lowest and darkest moments. Not seeing the eternal light that is flowing around us. The light is there, it is us that is blinded to its glow. We are so wrapped in our dismay that we do not see nor feel the warmth. It is cold and dank . The feeling of being alone in our situation causes us to bemoan to our Gods and Goddesses as to where they are. Why are they letting this happen to their children? Is there no help to be given by them?
Help us to help ourselves
Time and time again you have either read or heard me tell of our having to help ourselves in all situations. Gathering strength from within to begin the process of re-entering the living. Solving the problems on our own. Our Gods and Goddesses lend a whisper in our ears for guidance, yet it is not heard by those in need. They are ignoring the whisper. Worse they are caught up in the yelling and ranting that it is not just to be going through this or that. Yet it is. It is set forth that we go though trying times. We are given tests to strengthen our personal will. Gaining from what they our deities has brought to us.
The help they are giving is nothing at times. It may sadden them to see us in despair, but they know that when the end is there we will have gained three more steps on pur given path.
Seek and Ye Shall Find
Signs abound. One must look, feel and see. Ignoring them hinders your personal progress to enlightenment. We must grasp each new trial with head strong tenacity. Focus on what the problem is and solve it as best we can. Requesting signs and help from our Gods should be done. Not to lay it all on them though. That is the reason we are here. To learn. To experience life. To fix what is needed.
Every where you are there are signs if you are aware. Being in despair does not mean you should totally sink your head in the sand. Keep an eye and ear open. You might be surprised of what you will see or hear. They send us guiding inspiration when asked. It is our fault when it is not received. Our fault? Yes, for we have chosen during these times to be ignorant of what we have learned by past experiences. As each new trial and tribulations is different, there is generally a common ground shared by the problems which occur in your life.
Forgive and Forget
If this is the common theme to your personal dilemma, forgiving and forgetting then work on it. Are you truly forgiving both parties? One person I asked this of answered that they did forgive the party. I in turn asked them did they forgive their selves for forgiving them? They after thought smiled and said "No". Forgiving and forgetting is not only for a person, but things also. Forgiving that something bad has happened in your life and forgetting it happened. Holding onto it for future reference though. You may need to go back and re-think again if you find that you are in the same boat again. Learn to forgive and forget inward also. Sometimes a guilt is there for forgiving because you really didn’t want to in the first place. It’s ok to do this. You will be surprised at how healing this can be.
Holding Tight
Are you holding onto the past? Let it go as you would a wild bird that has been caged. Look at the bird (your problematic past) grieve that it will soon be gone. Let the cage door hang wide open. See the bird leaving you? This is your way of letting go of what you are holding onto.
Grasping tightly to something or someone is a terrible emotional pain that we often do. We feel the need to hold tight to whatever it is. We claim it, own it and have to have it. Do we really? We are brought people and things into our lives every day. Each may have a lesson for us. Long term friends and associates are the hardest to say good bye to. Especially if an intimate relationship is in the process of leaving. You will find that you may grasp on, holding ever so tightly for fear of the unknown. Our deities has helped us with bringing these into our lives and now will help us to let them go.
Let them go. Grieve freely. Begin to heal yourself. Knowing that your Gods/Goddesses are there with a hand on your shoulder sharing your pain. You learned something and they know it wont be long before you truly see it. I am sure they smile at that thought.
Life Goes On. So must we
For those that have chosen the Path Each knows that deep down they are never alone. The guidance. The warmth. The Love. Its all there for us. We just need to seek inner solace sometimes that our free will is important not only to us but them. Entrust upon them your love and they will do the same. It is up to you to do the hard parts. That is to look with eyes that see. Hear with ears that listen. Love with hearts already filled with love.
Whether it be good or bad times it matters little. Our deities love us with each day that passes. They are there when we need or in some cases think we do not need them.
When you have reached times of despair always trust and remember.
They remain with us when others have left us alone.
It is something the individual must feel alone. Not something that is told to them by others. A true feeling of warmth, comfort and trust is felt. During times that are turbulent and calm. The feeling is there. Sometimes it is harder to discern it is there but none the less it is.
During sessions of counseling I have attempted to comfort those with the feeling of what I call it" loss of the Gods". It is the feeling brought on by circumstances that are beyond our control and seem to be over whelming us. Those times when we are at our lowest and darkest moments. Not seeing the eternal light that is flowing around us. The light is there, it is us that is blinded to its glow. We are so wrapped in our dismay that we do not see nor feel the warmth. It is cold and dank . The feeling of being alone in our situation causes us to bemoan to our Gods and Goddesses as to where they are. Why are they letting this happen to their children? Is there no help to be given by them?
Help us to help ourselves
Time and time again you have either read or heard me tell of our having to help ourselves in all situations. Gathering strength from within to begin the process of re-entering the living. Solving the problems on our own. Our Gods and Goddesses lend a whisper in our ears for guidance, yet it is not heard by those in need. They are ignoring the whisper. Worse they are caught up in the yelling and ranting that it is not just to be going through this or that. Yet it is. It is set forth that we go though trying times. We are given tests to strengthen our personal will. Gaining from what they our deities has brought to us.
The help they are giving is nothing at times. It may sadden them to see us in despair, but they know that when the end is there we will have gained three more steps on pur given path.
Seek and Ye Shall Find
Signs abound. One must look, feel and see. Ignoring them hinders your personal progress to enlightenment. We must grasp each new trial with head strong tenacity. Focus on what the problem is and solve it as best we can. Requesting signs and help from our Gods should be done. Not to lay it all on them though. That is the reason we are here. To learn. To experience life. To fix what is needed.
Every where you are there are signs if you are aware. Being in despair does not mean you should totally sink your head in the sand. Keep an eye and ear open. You might be surprised of what you will see or hear. They send us guiding inspiration when asked. It is our fault when it is not received. Our fault? Yes, for we have chosen during these times to be ignorant of what we have learned by past experiences. As each new trial and tribulations is different, there is generally a common ground shared by the problems which occur in your life.
Forgive and Forget
If this is the common theme to your personal dilemma, forgiving and forgetting then work on it. Are you truly forgiving both parties? One person I asked this of answered that they did forgive the party. I in turn asked them did they forgive their selves for forgiving them? They after thought smiled and said "No". Forgiving and forgetting is not only for a person, but things also. Forgiving that something bad has happened in your life and forgetting it happened. Holding onto it for future reference though. You may need to go back and re-think again if you find that you are in the same boat again. Learn to forgive and forget inward also. Sometimes a guilt is there for forgiving because you really didn’t want to in the first place. It’s ok to do this. You will be surprised at how healing this can be.
Holding Tight
Are you holding onto the past? Let it go as you would a wild bird that has been caged. Look at the bird (your problematic past) grieve that it will soon be gone. Let the cage door hang wide open. See the bird leaving you? This is your way of letting go of what you are holding onto.
Grasping tightly to something or someone is a terrible emotional pain that we often do. We feel the need to hold tight to whatever it is. We claim it, own it and have to have it. Do we really? We are brought people and things into our lives every day. Each may have a lesson for us. Long term friends and associates are the hardest to say good bye to. Especially if an intimate relationship is in the process of leaving. You will find that you may grasp on, holding ever so tightly for fear of the unknown. Our deities has helped us with bringing these into our lives and now will help us to let them go.
Let them go. Grieve freely. Begin to heal yourself. Knowing that your Gods/Goddesses are there with a hand on your shoulder sharing your pain. You learned something and they know it wont be long before you truly see it. I am sure they smile at that thought.
Life Goes On. So must we
For those that have chosen the Path Each knows that deep down they are never alone. The guidance. The warmth. The Love. Its all there for us. We just need to seek inner solace sometimes that our free will is important not only to us but them. Entrust upon them your love and they will do the same. It is up to you to do the hard parts. That is to look with eyes that see. Hear with ears that listen. Love with hearts already filled with love.
Whether it be good or bad times it matters little. Our deities love us with each day that passes. They are there when we need or in some cases think we do not need them.
When you have reached times of despair always trust and remember.
They remain with us when others have left us alone.
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