We receive a lot of mail. Not just from our students but from those that either visit the main site or are readers here. One of the many emails we receive are on how spells back fire. They need help in either stopping what they have put into action or they need it tweaked a little.

One thing when you are getting ready to do any working is to think. Yes, think.

What is it that you are really trying to do or get?
Is it that important?
Why is it important?
Is it a solution to your problem or a band aide?
Is it justice or retaliation?
Do you really want he/she to love you?
Do you really want to cause harmful things to happen to that other person?

Really think about what it is you are doing. If it is a justice or hexing spell working, I would hope that you take a day or so and give it much thought. Remember Karma is a boomerang and will certainly come back to get you.

After you think it through the next step is to write down what it is you want to express. Be careful of what you are asking for. Missing thoughts, words may get you knee high in trouble. Use your words and thoughts carefully.

Sometimes the words come out, but the intent is much different. So the intent works against what it is you really hope to receive. Intent is nearly everything.

I would really hope that when you have decided to cast your working that you are doing the right thing and for the right reasons. No, hexing the guys girlfriend so you can be with him is not the right thing. Sorry. Oh this is a non gender thing. Works both ways. So guys, if she doesn't want you, leave it be.

There are no quick fixes when it comes to spell working. Sometimes there is no fix at all. You have to ride out what ever wave you set in motion in the sea of the Universe. Might not be a long ride or it might last for a very, very long time.

Use your heads not your hearts.